How to make a man love you?
If you’re my type of girl you’ve probably came across a one really nice guy which “liked” you. I’ve had similar experiences with my boyfriend. It was so much pleasure being with him that I didn’t want to spent any day apart. However, he wasn’t feeling the same about me completely, it was driving me crazy. It seemed sometimes I disappear for him. It was very hard loving a man which doesn’t love you as well.
I did what I could to make him look at me more seriously and to get my footprint in his mind. I’ve bought great amounts of new, sexy clothing, cooked him best dinners I could, even tried love letters as I was just that desperate! Amazingly, most I’ve squeezed out of him was “nice ass” and “thanks”. I couldn’t believe it!!
I had to change something, my friends gave me stupid advices like dating another guy to raise jealousy or don’t give him sex anymore. People that gave me those advices also had horrendous relationships so I thought that I really need somewhat better of a tip than that.
All along it was so obvious! If you want to stay in the man’s memory why not to become the woman he thinks about constantly – to do this I had to find out what men exactly want from us.
I simply had to try something as there was nothing to lose – the relationship phase I was at was horrible and he wouldn’t want to change anything since he saw no reason!
What you really have to know is what triggers love activation button in a man to pull this off. As soon as you find out about this, you will be able to reel him in for good.
You see, one of the main keys in the relationship are not being as good as you can for him (making dinners, doing laundry) but rather, showing him that you care about relation ship. And showing him this not in the nicest way…
Lets talk about being a the bitch: if you are mad on your man for some reason and doing things like instead of promised big dinner putting popcorn on the table, he will know that you’re pissed and want attention from him. Now, if you say things just like “I love you” don’t expect good results because men want you to be subtle and have secrets to be more intriguing.
Now, if you act as if you had one hell of a period, you will win two things:
1) you will be subtle, and more intriguing as you don’t tell directly what’s wrong
2) you will show your man that you care about him in a very sexy manner
While in plenty of couples woman acts calm and patient yet they still stick around together, I can guarantee you that acting like a bitch will give one chunk of a chilli spice for your relationship. Now, while I’m talking about being a bitch, I don’t mean calling your man idiot, low earning retard or insulting in too many ways. Acting like a bitch means being pissed in a “womanly” passive agressive manner. Let’s say the guy finds his popcorn and you wash dishes, he comes up to you and asks “are you angry at something”, just smile but don’t look at him and keep on doing what you’re doing. That somehow gives great pleasure for you and him, as he will be intrigued in what’s wrong and you just made him to think what’s wrong. These sort of little things spice up everything tremendously, so feel free to try instead of being calm, will-do-what-you-want type of woman.
Oh, and the guy that was causing all that trouble is now married… To me
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