How to Get the Man – What You Just HAVE to Avoid

Posted: June 7th, 2011 | Author: admin | Filed under: Uncategorized | No Comments »

DO NOT at all costs do ANY of these:

Somehow, as we ourselves want that perfect man in our dreams, we think that we have to be perfect ourselves. This is very far from true, as I tried to seek that perfection for few years. It didn’t brought the prince to me, however, I felt miserable and depressed because of this as I wasn’t being myself.

So, take a look at this list and try to avoid all of these:

Thinking that he knows what you’re thinking
They can’t read your mind (very rare occasion, you are the happy one out of thousand women that has the man like that), men minds are completely different from women and has very little in common. You will be constantly disappointed If you will always expect him to know what you want.

Changing your looks just for him
Lets say, if you like red handbag and man says he would prefer black do not change it. You are showing him that you are easy to manipulate if you’re doing this (you might end up going to his work instead of him one day). Men do like if you have your own opinion, if he will love you – he will love you for what you are, not what you will become if you listen to him.

Giving him any little thing he wants
However, if you do this he might wander around you for a long time, but not because he loves you, its just he sees you as a maid for free which even gives him sex! If you do this he will use you and treat you like a sponge. DO NOT cook him every dinner, DON’T clean his apartment, DO NOT do his laundry if you’re just dating so far, DON’T run over his place just because he said he feels bad.

Acting as if you were his mother
He is not a child, he is a grown up man. While mothers often forget this and act with their children as if they still were little boys, you CANNOT do so as well. Do not call him every minute asking how he is and saying that you haven’t heard from him, and the worst thing you could do is something like telling him to button his coat up if its raining outside. You’re a little bit too late to be his mother, he already has one.

If you want him to notice you, and only you, make sure you find out how to become irresistable for him, but he won’t gonna put up long with most of the stuff mentioned above even if he does like you.

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